Have you been tearing your hair out in frustration wondering;
“Why isn’t the law of attraction working for me?”
Okay so maybe it’s not that bad, but perhaps you’ve seen or heard about other people successfully manifesting and wondered if you were doing something wrong.
You may be thinking “I’ve tried everything but nothing seems to work”…
I hate to break it to you, but the law of attraction is always working…
Okay so now you probably are about to pull your hair out…
But don’t worry because I have 3 main reasons why the law of attraction may not be working for you, and some really helpful solutions to try right away!
1. ) Fear and Self Doubt.
Being fearful or doubting yourself is a common resistant block that slows down any manifestation process.
In order to go forward with any dream or goal, you must push out of your comfort zone.
Humans are typically logical thinkers, meaning that it’s hard to see or feel things that aren’t actually there yet.
Since your consciousness uses logic, your subconscious may resort into having doubts or fears behind what it is you want.
The result of this means that you may start to feel skeptical about the law of attraction in general.
This is often a subconscious thought process, so you may need to spend some time rewiring your mind to eliminate these resistance blocks.
A great way to do this is using affirmations.
No matter what your manifestations are affirmations are always a vital tool.
Every time you are experiencing butterflies in your stomach, or begin to talk your self out of something, use a positive message to set your consciousness straight again.
Here are some really helpful affirmations for fear and doubt:
- I am powerful.
- I overcome any obstacle.
- I am strong.
- I am confident.
- On the other side of change is greatness.
There is no need to worry about fear, it’s a natural response to any change, learn to embrace it as a step closer to your dreams and goals.
2.) You’re around the wrong people.
Have you heard the saying;
“You are the product of the 5 people you spend your most time with”?
That’s because it’s true! This one took me a while to get my head around but eventually, it all made sense.
Mannerisms, beliefs, vocabulary all stem from the people you spend your most time with, so it’s important to choose wisely.
Are you around people that bring you down?
Or maybe you surround yourself with people who gossip and can’t seem to get away from drama…
Next time you’re out, observe how the conversations flow.
If you find yourself getting caught up with these type of people, then it may be harming your manifestation process.
If this is true, then you may need to think about who you spend your most time with…
3.) You’re Not Giving It Enough Time.
You’ve probably heard that Rome wasn’t built in a day, so why should you expect your manifestations to be?
Many people give up right before their dreams come alive, the ego is often driven by ‘When is it going to come’ instead of focusing on the present and taking it day by day.
Everyone wants their manifestations to happen, but no one is willing to wait and let the universe do its work!
Just because you want something now, doesn’t necessarily mean it will speed your manifestation process up.
All this does is create impatience and desperation, which leads to manifesting more of what you don’t want.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed with your process, then you should create a manifestation box!
A manifestation box is basically a mailbox to the universe, all you have to do is write down your manifestations and place it in any box of your choice!
Once you send your manifestations to the universe then you set it and forget it!
Go back to your manifestation box in a few months time and see the progress you have made.
What to do right now if the law of attraction isn’t working?
I want to wrap things up by saying your manifestations will take some time!
If you are feeling like nothing is working then I’ve compiled a list of actionable steps you can take right now to help with your manifestations.
- Write out a gratitude list.
- Cut of any negative people in your life (they are not worth your time).
- Read or watch more about the law of attraction to feel inspired and empowered.
- Join Facebook groups around the law of attraction to connect with other like-minded people.
- Create a manifestation box.
- Practice your affirmations.
Your manifestations will always work if you let them, don’t be fooled by the ego and it’s impatience.
If you set the right intentions, show gratitude, stay positive and take steps big or small towards your dreams they will happen.
I hope this post has helped and thank you for taking the time to read my blog 🙂